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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^what's expensive sex? Like it or not, you will risk loosing your marriage anytime you don't consider your spouse's needs. Its a gamble that most take.

Sex is what differentiates roommates from a marital relationship.--a woman. [/quote]

You are missing the point that many male cheaters have a healthy sex life at home.  They have mental issues like narcissism, alcohol, addiction and/or childhood trauma.

And, yes, those guys risk losing everything by not taking their spouse’s health, safety, and needs into consideration.[/quote]

Monogamy isn't an natural construct.  Its a cultural one intended to support raising children and securing lineage.  Because someone cheats doesn't mean they suffer from some substance/psychological issue.  They're probably just bored off their ass and tired of starfish sex.[/quote]

+1. Or the marriage is not great anyway and they are only staying for kids/finances and are already emotionally checked out. I think it is actually the rarity that they suffer from substance or psychological issues. Often, they are bored, emotionally checked out or their needs are not being met at home emotionally or sexually. I hate how people assume there must be other issues...it is because they don't want to be believe that they (the non-cheating spouse) could never be part of the problem of why they would seek needs elsewhere. The alternative is divorce. Some people do not want a divorce for various reasons.[/quote]

There are many people who face tough times in life and/or marriage and it can manifest as unhappiness in life/spouse etc.  Many people face tough times and don’t cheat.  It’s a cheater character issue that they handle tough times by doing things like cheating.  They not only cheat but find a way to blame others for their actions.  It’s horrible how they blame others for their wrong actions.[/quote]

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