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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hid cancer from my DH too. He was due to take the bar in February and I was diagnosed in Nov. He was working full time and JUST accepted the job within his company he needs his JD for. He was graduating in Dec so had finals thats next week and was going to take the bar 8 weeks after graduation. He was literally almost killing himself. He was working his office job for 9 hours, went to class 3 hours a night 3x a week and then would study until midnight or 1 am. Every night.  I couldnt tell him.  I did just up and quit my job though.  It didnt look suspicious because he had just accepted his new position and the kids were little and staying at home was always talked about. I got through thanksgiving, graduation, christmas, and then had surgery and chemo in January. My best friend "took me away" on a girls trip one weekend for the surgery.  The chemo was managable and only 3 times a week during the day.  As soon as he walked out of that hotel where he took the bar I met him in the hotel lobby and told him.  My hair was starting to fall out in clumps.   I pray for you PP.  I pray for you. [/quote]

That's love. Very selfless and courageous. Wish you all the best.[/quote]

Ditto.  Don't see selfless very often, especially on DCUM.

Wishing you a long, healthy and happy life.[/quote]

I don't believe the poster about hiding cancer, at all.
How did you hide the surgical scars? What access route didn't they use for chemo? Dont believe it at all.
I think if your spouse is supportive, then why not tell them? And how cluseless is your spouse? He didn't notice you weren't feeling well?
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