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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to tread carefully and respectfully because you’ve shared something personal and tender. I also want to acknowledge that you chose your hard and so did Jen. There’s not a right or wrong way to navigate betrayal. Leaving is an acceptable option, devoid of shame. Biblical, even. [/quote]

Agreed. It was going to be hard either way, just different hard. A pp said that same thing also sometime recently (about Jen, and how she chose her hard so fast without even trying couples counseling first) and it was a good reminder to me for the occasional days when it feels like “what if I had done it differently - would I feel fabulous and flirty right now instead of however I do?” But no, I see it clearly in moments like Brandon’s wedding photos and that impact those images had on my heart. I made the right decision for me and mine without question. I still feel flirty and fabulous with my husband most of the time too. And thank you for your kind response btw.

I was never rooting against Jen, but only curiously watching it play out. I have watched this scenario play out in personal circles a few times unfortunately, some stayed together, some did not. It does feel like society celebrates one choice (Jen’s choice) a lot more over staying. And it also feels like the women who make that choice really sell it hard as awesome. That part makes me sad and wanted to speak up for the alternative. Jen has a lot of followers who have found or will find themselves in this situation. Sometimes her selling people on divorce and single/dating sexiness feels no different than her selling makeup and jewelry.[/quote]

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