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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. I never thought about it before reading these tonight, but Brandon wanted the same things then and now. Respect and sex and to be the hype guy for people he loves. He didn’t change. He still thrives on sex (as evidenced by all the Tina boob posts LOL) and respect and hyping his people. Simple. He went after it the wrong way when Jen wouldn’t give him any of it, and everyone paid for that. But Jen on the other hand is who denied him respect and sex, and after losing him, all she apparently wants to give Tyler is respect and sex, but no one can tell if he even cares… [/quote]

Wow. This is the kind of misogyny that made me leave evangelicalism. Christian men love to blame their women when they stray…and the church -and it’s women - pile right on. Maybe it’s for a sense of control- if I’m blonde, sexy, and submissive enough then my husband won’t leave me? I don’t know but it’s not healthy and not the way Christ treated women. [/quote]

Disagreeing, respectfully. Back to whomever said society has long been trying to sell a lie. If you hated marriage and were trying to break up marriages or get people to quit fighting for them, one strategy might be to try and convince women that divorced life is sexy and fun and fulfilling (it’s not. been there.). Another strategy might be trying to convince women that they are somehow caving or submitting or weaker if they cater to their man’s needs. Newsflash: sex is fun for both involved.

Say what you want, but I have ears and eyes: My friends who have committed sex-filled relationships with their husbands are happier and healthier than the bitter women who have left men for “not being enough” or “expecting too much”… 🙄 It doesn’t strike me as a misogynistic evangelical problem. No one said anything about blonde, but is that why Jen’s hair has been lighter lately??—Trying to interest Tyler? Maybe, just hear me out, maybe, the path Feminist Jen and Bachelor Tyler have chosen isn’t as desirable. Period. Christ also didn’t instruct women to be totally self-sufficient and wealthy and powerful. America did. [/quote]

There is a lot of wisdom here.

As Jen had to always be winning in life she had to make her divorced life seem like it’s a pure dream.

Many of us know the truth though.  I know the truth.  It’s a largely sad and desperate and scary life and the jealous comparisons you made even as a married versus other women is amped up ten fold.  Jen can never be honest. [/quote]

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