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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I suggest you observe how he speaks about, speaks to, and behaves towards women — family, friends, colleagues, and strangers. This could tell you whether or not this is a big deal. When you are partnered with a man who isn’t overtly feminist, you may think it’s not a huge deal because he treats you well, respects you, and isn’t maga… but when you’re living through times where men in charge are systematically disenfranchising women (through this last name BS too) and persecuting women for accessing healthcare, it is so lonely and difficult to be living with a man who doesn’t seem to care. You need someone who is up in arms and fighting for your rights as a human. If he’s of the “oh, we’ll be fine, it won’t touch us” variety, he’s probably not as good a human as you want to think. Good luck. Being a straight woman in a patriarchy is not for the faint of heart. [/quote]
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