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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So one guy  insults family and fair game is to humiliate the other family?

Who raised you people?[/quote]

People who don't humiliate other people's kids ...to ad insult, in a very public manner!    [/quote]

And frankly, when you go that low to publicly humiliating someone's kid, all bets are off.[/quote]

Publicly humiliating the child of the person who knows that you had an affair no less. Dave is clearly a horrible idiot and it is difficult for me to muster sympathy for him. [/quote]

Do you recognize that Dave also has a wife and kids? What about them?[/quote]

I don't think its on OP or her DH to have to swallow Dave's horrific treatment of them and I don't think they owe the daughter and wife going out of their way to deny themselves an honest response.

I think the DH was over the line. I also think he was probably seeing red after Dave said something seemingly DESIGNED to make him see red. And IMO this is a lot of justification to get around to trying to protect Dave from the consequences of his actions. [/quote]

Horrific treatment? You exaggerate a bit much.[/quote]

I mean there have CLEARLY been other incidents! OP's wife has long suspected him of BPD! This is obviously not the first offense.

And I guess you think differently about your kids than I do because if someone called my teenage daughter fat in any way shape or form, let alone in a way clearly designed to mock her in a celebratory moment on my public Facebook page I would lose my ever loving sh*t. I would delete the person's post, unfriend them and excoriate them on text and not blow up their life because I wouldn't want that on MY page but I would lose my mind. And talk an incredible amount of crap about them to everyone who would listen. That is absolutely a horrific thing to do. [/quote]

Deleting the post, unfriending them, and sending a private text are all perfectly acceptable responses. [b]Talking crap about them like telling people about Dave’s affair? That’s going too far. [/b]Telling people what they did? Fine, but honestly at a certain point it makes you look crazy and you need to let it go. Dave is clearly a bad guy so his comment shouldn’t mean much. [/quote]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Have an affair, tell people about it, then treat those people badly you don't get to walk around all wah wah wah when the consequences hit.[/quote]

Would you shut up with the Play Stupid Games crap.  [/quote]

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