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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you think this is fair in cases where the husband made all the money and the wife stayed home with the kids? Net worth of around 10 million, 3 kids who are grown or teens, 20 year marriage. Wife is fighting for a 50% split plus alimony. Hasn’t worked in over 17 years. She’s not getting alimony but I don’t think she should get 50% of the money. Maybe 10-20% so she is not destitute but even that is generous. [/quote] Give her half and be done with it. It will save you time and money otherwise lawyers fees and court costs may leave you with a lot less $$ ! My uncle tried to give his ex wife half but she wanted more plus alimony. She lawyered up and by the time it ended they went through millions in costs to lawyers, etc. He had to move in with his mother and his ex got half of what was left, lawyers fees, and alimony! Luckily, she remarried quickly so the alimony payments stopped. They were married 20 years and she was a SAHM for 18 of those years in a non community property state! She also allegedly cheated for years. If she had just taken half from the get-go they both would have had more money because by the time the split what was left and her alimony it was less due to lawyers costs. Another friends husband tried to do this and hide the money. Her attorney put liens on his properties and businesses. She didn’t get half but still got millions and he ended up loosing tons to lawyers and his new side piece who he gave half of his businesses too. She raised your kids and dealt the house, would you be as successful without her? No. How many ideas did you discuss with her? Was she your therapist? My spouse is successful and travels a ton for work, so I had to cut down what I do career wise so I could be around for our kids. We don’t have family close by. If he pulled this shit I would hire a lawyer and take him to the cleaners. Be decent and give her half. If you don’t want to give her half then give her 4.9 million or something. [/quote]
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