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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up in the Midwest in an area where going to college was the expectation, but very little prestige given to this school over that. People mostly went public.

But .. there was also an expectation that kids got cars over their own in their teen years (new, nice cars). People cared indeed about brand names. People got married pretty young, bought an home at 30,  and had their 3 or 4 kids by the time they were in their mid 30.

My parents were east coast transplants and we had to use the family car when it was free and applied to colleges further afield. We all went to Ivy League schools (in the day when it wasn’t that hard for full pay kids).

And now I live in Brooklyn and see this mania up close.

But as I watch my Midwest friends repeating this cycle I think, that’s a better way.  It’s weird how this college thing overtakes a childhood. My old friends had more kids, roomy houses, less financial stress, got a lake house in MI or WI, are on track for retirement, and their kids had carefree childhoods. They all have fulfilling jobs. Their kids will too.

Why do we do this?[/quote]

My spouse and I are also from the Midwest and none of our friends there with kids buy into this insanity or stress over where the kids are going. People send their kids to state schools in KS, IA, WI and MI. And honestly, the outcome ends up being fairly much the same but with a much lower price tag and far less pressure. Kind of wish we had moved back years ago for the same reasons you mention. [/quote]

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