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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nothing like a hive of bitter divorced women. Many women do just great with marriage! A loving husband who provides and cares for his wife and children. The freedom to work, or not work. Physical and intellectual satisfaction. Try not being so miserable. Works wonders. [/quote] I’m early 20s and read this forum. A close relative just finalized her divorce after 22 years to her abusive exH. Thankfully she’s relatively young, in her 40s, but she’d been a SAHM for 20 years and is very concerned about how she’s going to support herself.[/quote] I’m also in my 20s, but thankfully I have a wealthy father and a trust. So technically I never have to work or rely on a husband. But I do like having a boyfriend and being told what to do, so I guess that’s a better setup for me than marriage. I think being raised in such a sheltered and controlling environment made me lack self-sufficiency and confidence. I don’t think I will even find a man who is wealthier than me lol. And I’m not giving them any of my assets. My mother was a SAHM and really lazy tbh. We had nannies, house cleaners, cooks, and even a driver. I honestly don’t know what she did all day. She wouldn’t have been able to support herself if my dad left her. She didn’t come from a wealthy family and was significantly younger than my dad. Marriage doesn’t seem like a good deal for uneducated or poor SAHM. Like you destroy your body to have kids and are unemployed for year. How can u support yourself lol. I guess in a way I rely on a man for my lifestyle though. Without my dad and inheritance I would have really struggled in life and wouldn’t be able to live my easy, carefree lifestyle [/quote]
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