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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In normal non abuse/usury situations women are the gatekeepers of sex and [b]men are the gatekeepers of a continuing relationship.[/b] If he is happy he will provide all resources he has available and they can each flourish.

Things change when the male has taken on more responsibilities and is now in a position where his obligations to everything on the periphery of that relationship take over, children, houses, businesses, health insurance, retirement planning, etc. at this point the female can withhold the things that cemented the agreement at its outset and because she is now part of his responsibility package she can pretty much ride free.  
He married a fun-loving sweet woman that would have sex at the drop of a hat, she went out of her way please him and life was great. Add some years and insults and the shine doesn’t come back as brilliant as it used to but he is still using all of his resources to further the organization they built. She can continue to do less and less yet still reap the benefits of her early short investment when she gave so much of herself to the relationship.

If she can hold on for 20 years and give just enough to keep him placated she’ll have access to lifetime alimony and half or possibly more of everything he killed himself to build.

I know there are many women who don’t get the luxury of the situation I’ve outlined above and they have had a rough time.  That rough time later in marriage is because they likely ignored a glaring psychological defect in themselves and the men they chose, marriage can be just as awful for men as it can be for women.

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I mean I hate to let facts get in the way of a weird fantasy but most divorces are initiated by women. [/quote]

This is about the beginning of a relationship, we’re all aware that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. [/quote]

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