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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP — you pretend to understand what betrayal would feel like but you do not have any clue.

People — do not say what you would do if it has not happened to you.  You do not actually know. [/quote]

If you go into any marriage without considering that there is a significant possibility( what is it? 20%?) that your spouse will cheat on you, you are a fool.

All this betrayal nonsense is just theatrics. Yes, it's hurtful and painful. It's not the end of the world. You did not marry a unicorn. You married an earthling like others did before you.

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I can’t believe someone is so full of themselves and says they are lazy that they spend pages and pages just spewing their random thoughts on a topic that doesn’t involve them. What a gross person[/quote]

DCUM is here for random thoughts too. You spew yours, I spew mine.

That is what lazy people do actually: sit behind a computer and spew random thoughts. Other lazy people like you keep reading them and crying foul when they don't match up to your delusional and disengenious worldview.[/quote]

But at least they act interested in the topic rather than all knowing or it's something they know. Not some know it all who has never experienced something. That is just narcissistic.[/quote]

Let them focus on what they know instead of claiming superiority over APs while feasting on the same trash.

I am actually more objective than they are ( never been an AP, never cheated on anyone and never caught anyone cheating on me). I am in a nice neutral position to see through the bs. They are welcone.
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You are an ignoramus.[/quote]

Happy to be one on this issue. I prefer that to being a trashy person who wants to play victim and claim genius at the same time.[/quote]

If we agree you are one, then get off this relationship board on affairs. You don't need to post your opinions on something you don't know about and you are a trashy person to do so.[/quote]

Being cheated on does not make you any wiser or knowledgeable on these issues. Your bias actually makes you less objective.

And you don't own these boards. Just respond to the post you agree with and keep it moving.[/quote]

Experience is everything.

Someone who never had kids cannot cone close to knowing what that experience is like or what being a parent over the years is truly like; the work, the stress, the love, the $ investment, etc.

Someone who lived in a war zone is going to know a lot more than seeing it on the news.

Someone married 20 years is going to know a lot more about the realities and ups and downs in a two decade+ marriage than a 25-year old that hasn’t been married.

What people see in movies, hear about in the abstract is nothing like when it is personally happening in their lives.

In your world, a 10-year old has as much insight about life as an 80-year old because he doesn’t need to experience it.

You get dumber with each additional post.[/quote]

So being cheated on and keeping the cheat gives you experience in judging APs intelligence as low and yours as high?

Delusional!

:lol:

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I'm not OP. I am commenting on how ridiculous your post is.  You seem really angry.  If you are comfortable being AP, own it and ignore comments that make you feel bad.[/quote]

+100 if you are going to fight against people that think what you are doing is wrong, you are going to have a lot more minds to change than a few people on this message board:

A Gallup poll conducted found that 91% of Americans consider it to be either always or almost always wrong for married people to have sexual relations with someone other than their spouses, and in response to a separate but related question, 89% say that "married men and women having an affair" is morally unacceptable.

Go find your 9% that will tell you what you are doing is magnificent.  [/quote]

Stop deflecting. It shows that you are too stupid to have the actual discussion. Here let me lay it out again for you: You " victims" sound like idiots when you claim that your DH's AP is not as bright as you are because she slept with the same defective man you are sleeping with.

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You are a genius, AP.  Feel better.  Now you can stop your 10-page rant.  [/quote]

Go watch where your DH puts his stuff.

I am just having a good time. :lol: [/quote]

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