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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The "cuties" footage at the end of the finale very, very clearly proved that Zanab is batshit insane and rewrites things to make her to be a perpetual victim. Cole did absolutely nothing wrong in that scene.

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You're nuts.[/quote]

What did he say or do wrong? Truly?

Zanab was projecting her own insecurities onto her restriction so she could fit into her dress, and blamed him. That's on her.

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He said "are you really going to eat two?" Why the eff did he say that then? What is that, 70 calories? I think he started backtracking when he remembered the cameras were on.[/quote]

He did not say that. He said: "Are you about to eat two of those?" There was no hostility or judgment in his voice (unless you're projecting, obviously) and then Zanab followed up about WHY she is voluntarily choosing to restrict herself (for her dress).

Jesus, as a woman who's struggled with weight and judgment most of my life, his question was completely and totally benign. It was his flighty curious question, and nothing more.

[/quote]And what if he does that all the time like she said? Constant questions like that about what she’s eating? Your head is in the sand if you think that’s innocent and not damaging. [/quote]

Well, how about they air the footage? The one they did, it was all about Zanab hearing what she heard in her own head, and not having a good handle on the context or tone.

Cole isn't perfect, his convo with Colleen was awful. But Zanab is a messed up person in her own right, and so unnecessarily blaming Cole for everything. She takes zero accountability for her own crappy behavior.

[/quote]These food comments are right on the heels of him telling his new fiancé that she’s not the type of woman he’s normally attracted to, that Colleen is a 10 while she’s a 9, that she looks so different without makeup. You might to willing to dismiss isolated clips, but taken as a whole in context, he’s an ass. He may not be consciously pressuring her to change her body, that I can give him. But intent is not the same as impact. All of those moments together have an impact. He seemed to realize it towards the end of the reunion. Bartise, who did the same thing to Nancy, did not. [/quote]
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I think both share some responsibility. I am insecure and I see myself in Zay. You can’t “fish” for comments about what you look like with makeup off, and ask to be rated by someone who is immature and doesn’t care to tell you what you want to hear and then get mad because you didn’t hear what you wanted to hear. I used to fish for compliments all the time by being self deprecating and it backfired many times so I speak from experience. Zay also has some work to do as she needs a lot of affirmation. [/quote]

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