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Hi OP, I was in a situation similar to your daughter’s.  My mom remarried my first semester of college and I lost all my financial aid.  My stepdad stated that he was marrying my mom, not us, and did not pay for anything.  I got through financially because my grandmother passed and gave me money for college.

I saw, and still see my mom as a whore.

I’m now married with three kids and have already paid their college before they start elementary school (I understand not everyone can do that).  I’m a multimillionaire.  Although my mom and her husband have a good pension, they have very little in savings.  The pension will be reduced greatly when stepdad passes and my mom will need support.  I absolutely will not financially assist a whore.

I imagine your daughter will see you this way.  When someone marries you, if they aren’t including your kids in their family, you’re a whore.  Worse than a whore - you’re a whore who sells out your own daughter.
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The PP is an example of the bratty entitlement the OP worries about.  This person judges their single mom for wanting to remarry, judges a man who met her when she was already an adult and didn't want to bear the cost of her college AND she had her college paid for by someone.  Yuck.  But I am sure that the karma will come back to her.[/quote]

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