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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going to go out on a limb here and suggest that you are middle class if you have to look at what is coming in and what is going out and wonder if the income stops for a few months, can you survive? I think that those of us that work for a living, have to [b]find childcare [/b](including making the financial call as to whether you can afford to be a SAHM), [b]care for elderly parents[/b], [b]have a mortgage or pay rent,[/b] and have to look at the cost of vacation (or save for one) are probably middle class.[/quote] Why do people think that if they choose to spend more of their salary every month leaving less for disposable income, that makes them middle class? The true middle class friends that I have, cut corners on all of these areas because that is their only choice. Two families I know, a grandmother cut back to part-time work so that she could care for her grandchild(ren) part-time. Then the parents went with part-time child-care, one at a less expensive daycare and one with a nanny share because that was all they could afford. I know families that have had to continue to live in small houses in crappy school districts because that was all they could afford. I know friends who cannot afford to care for their parents as they ail and have had to find eldercare that accepted medicaid because that was what they could afford. If you can choose the best childcare for your child, if you can choose even the crappy house in the best school districts, if you can choose how to care for your elderly parents who need assistance, then you aren't just middle class. The middle class doesn't have these options. So many DCUMers are so out of touch with reality. Yes, there is a big difference between $300K and $5M but there is also a huge difference between middle class $150K and $300K. I don't care if you live in a crappy shitshack, but when it costs you $800K because you live in Bethesda, then you aren't middle class. Period.[/quote]
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