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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband made it known early in our relationship he wants to have sex everyday. I don't have a particularly high sex drive and felt 2 times a week is more than sufficient. However, we compromised and settled on a little more than every other day. Sometimes it's everyday. Sometimes we'll take 2 nights off.

We have 3 kids and both work FT and are driving kids all over northern Virginia and Maryland all week long for sports and activities and parties. It's absolutely ridiculous to say you can't make time for sex. Can't isn't the same as not wanting to.

To be fair, he pulls his weight around the house, to make sure we can be done putting the kids down and cleaning the house so we can have sex. I don't think of this as a turn on though. He's just doing what he should be and that in turn helps fulfill his needs.

If I was up until midnight cleaning and handling the kids and he was sitting around watching TV, [b]being lazy and otherwise disconnected from being a father and partner, that issue isn't sex. And I don't think I've read anywhere on here that women need to just spread their legs for a husband who's being a POS and failing at basic responsibilities.

[/b]Just take one for the team every now and then. Your marriage will thank you. [/quote]

+1000[/quote]

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