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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok. You have such wonderful insights.
Apply those powers to yourself too. 
I will stop posting on your sagas. No need for the "therapy" thanks.
I am not drunk or schizo. 
I am indeed an angry woman wrt this topic.
I remember men from my youth trapped into parenthood (and marriage back in the day) and how their lives and their childs' lives were affected. In a surprising number of incidents, the subsequent divorce proceedings revealed they were not the biological father. 
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I wish you were on the sofa next to me.

I think we would hold hands. This is some definite crazy.

The only thing anchoring me is that there's a baby. None of this is the baby's fault. [/quote]

Then stick a pin in your granny dreams and encourage the girl to give the baby over to a reputable adoption agency, The baby will have a far better life than being raised by an idiot mother, drama driven granny and clueless, absent father! [/quote]

Let me guess, you’re an adopter?

Adoption doesn’t guarantee anyone a “far better life.”  This mom is 27 and has a multigenerational support system.  The likely father of the child comes from a very wealthy family.  The likely grandmother is kind and generous, and the likely uncle is loving and involved.  In the grand scheme of things, it’s a pretty promising start for a baby.

Adopters could be narcissists.  The are likely wealthy but there is no guarantee they are moral or decent or stable or emotionally healthy in any way.

Most importantly, though, there is no reason to believe this woman wants to permanently sever ties to this infant she finds herself mothering.  That is an extreme and drastic position.  Even most women with cryptic pregnancies don’t want to give away their infants forever.  That’s a lifetime of grief that can never be fixed.

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