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Reply to "Holding my boundary. Let him be mad."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP makes more work than needs to be be and doesn't actually enjoy her "me time" with extra errands meeting her martyr pattern that she learned from her mother. With no therapy and no mention of friends modeling something else she is recreating her own childhood. DH found someone who does household chores, maybe he thinks that = caring. Toxic tense childhood for the little one. OP is putting the most energy into locking in the status quo without any insight. She married a lower earner just like her father who was dominated by her mother the martyr. OP sounds so isolated, she uses business to push away connection, even within her family. That pattern will not change with each in a separate apartment. [/quote]
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