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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because I want nothing to damage my kid’s relationship with my ex.

I don't understand why your need to help your ex trumps your own relationship with your kids and your own relationship with yourself. Why do you keep needing to help your ex? If the kids see him/her on their own and you made the divorce not about them what difference does it make? I really don't understand how hiding something someone did helps anyone. This is where we differ. If we really want our children to accept us as who we are and accept themselves as who they are, we have to actually be who we are.[/quote]

Well said. It makes no sense to me as well. Honestly I sort of wonder if people who were cheated on were so beaten down by their spouses that even in divorce, they put their cheating spouses above all else. [/quote]

People are just trying to do right by their children. They are trying to put their children first. You might not agree with the way they are going about it, but surely you can see the intention. It's obvious.[/quote]

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