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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The GF might not go back to her ex. That wouldn't be my concern as OP. My concern as OP would be that I am a convenient place filler because she does not want to do the hard work of reflecting what went wrong in her marriage and building a new life for her kids. The LAST thing she should be expending valuable effort and energy on right now is an ex boyfriend. It's not mature nor wise and OP needs to be very leery of exactly WHY she is using this time of growth and uncertainty in life to get back in contact with him. [/quote]

That is correct. I only mentioned the going back to ex because I've seen it. I'm a female and I have several female friends who have gone back to the ex to work things out because of kids and because of the convenience of familiarity.

I also have male friends, good guys like OP who have been in this spot with an ex girlfriend that's newly divorced, the woman tells them how horrible the ex was and how different he is from the ex and end up going right back to the ex. Bottom line OP shouldn't put too much stock into what she says about her next because she could flip the script in a few months.

You are right that above all OP needs to take it slowly there are big red flags you and others have mentioned them. This could work out but he need to have his eyes and ears wide open.[/quote]

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