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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^no but if she has a 9 year old she jumped into a new relationship very quickly and is now doing the same thing again. Op hasn't  been married or has kids; she has and those things plus her divorce have changed her in very real ways that he cannot anticipate. It's just good damn sense for any woman to take a breather exiting a relationship and take some time to rebuild her life and figure out what she needs and wants going forward. Time traveling to the past to the last guy you dated is at best misguided and at worst disastrous. She isn't the same person he dated then nor can she be. She needs to figure out who she is now and stand on her own two feet before entering into a relationship again. [/quote]

One of the big red flags for me is  ex admitting she was scared to be alone and working after 10 years that coupled with everything else. Seems to me ex wants to prove she's still desirable.  I don't know.

This could work out and turn into a sweet love story. It is also highly likely that  the ex  decides to go back to her husband and works things out I've seen this scenario happen time and time again.

Best thing OP can do is slow waaaaaaaaaay down and offer friendship.[/quote]

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