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[quote=Anonymous]I manage the Christmas gifting. I like doing it and don't mind the job once a year. It brings me joy, so its not a burden. If it felt like a burden, I would have to talk with my DH about sharing the task. I have put my foot down on Birthdays and additional holidays. (except for children- I do that) If DH wants to send gifts and/or cards he does. Most of the time, he doesn't. My family has chosen to no longer gift among the adults. I also don't send additional little things, like pictures, artwork from the kids, etc. I send these to my family. I initially did to his family, but never received even acknowledgement of their arrival, let alone a thank you. My family is profusely grateful, displays the art, gushes over things, calls the kids to talk to them about it, offers to pay for additional photos, etc. Basically, they make me feel like my effort is worth it.[/quote]
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