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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, sounds like you don't like his family. If you did like them, I'd say it's kinder to just do some kind of easy present like magazine subscription, hat-and-scarf, Harry & David, etc. Or order everything from Amazon and have it delivered directly to them. They know it's from you, and it's an easy way to do something nice. But if you don't want to, then don't. [/quote]

This is so messed up. Would you assume her DH dislikes her family because he doesn't get gifts for them and send cards?

Adults need to take responsibility for their own actions - and no, you don't get a pass just because you're married.[/quote]

I am basing it on the tone of her post, not really her actions in not getting them presents. If her husband was posting on here talking about how he just refuses to get presents for her family, then I would wonder if he had a problem with her family. If she doesn't want to get presents for her in-laws, that's  totally fine. My point was that if she likes them, it's an easy thing to do to just use the internet and throw a little something or other their way. I personally don't pick this battle regarding my in-laws (but I sure as shit pick other battles about them! :-) ).[/quote]

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