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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You won't get sole. I've seen guys abusive to their wife and kids get 50/50 in FxCo. You'll need to prove he is more harm than good to his children. Proof of adultery is not going to meet that burden.

As an aside, it sounds like you're blackmailing him and using your children as pawns. Step back and think about what's best for your children. [/quote]
Actually I'm not; I am committed to making sure he spends as much time as possible with the children.  As for what is best for my children, it's a) financial security, and b) having a sane parent be in control of decisions that shape their life. [/quote]

He's not sane?! As long as you can prove that, you may get something closer to sole. I'd guess you're not willing to go all out on that.

Even if he signs the papers, it has to be approved by a judge. You can't write a contract to cover custody agreements. [/quote]
You can certainly put custody arrangements in a divorce or separation agreement. If the parties agree before bringing it to the judge, no judge is going to against that. [/quote]

They absolutely will change it. I suspect one mention of blackmail and he OP will lose any chance of sole legal. What she's doing is illegal, and morally wrong. [/quote]

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