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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife bought new phone, she was transferring still DD from her old one but didn't complete it.  I remember her stressing that all her messages and photos wouldn't move over - ironically she never asked me to help.

Her old one was out and plugged in and an alarm kept going off.  I was like a message ring or a little tune.  It was annoying so I picked it up and found the txt messages.  Photos she sent him, messages saying how she used to do stuff to avoid having sex and the tactics she used, how she dislike me.  I knew we had some rough times but things were improving, so I thought.  Painful to read.  I guess since it was attached to WiFi it just downloaded them or synced or something.  They were older ones and I knew there were newer ones but she wouldn't let me see them or said they weren't there.  Pretty damaging to the ego.  [/quote]

Would it hurt your ego if you found out she was an alcoholic. Really it is not different. She has terrible coping mechanisms and she uses new men to make her feel better, this has nothing to do with you.[/quote]

Except she was getting dicked by another guy.  I can help her through a drinking problem, not the ultimate betrayal [/quote]

That is where you are wrong. You [b]can't[/b] help her through a drinking problem. She is the only one that can stop drinking. Families try to help (enable) and it goes horribly wrong.

I am not saying to help her, she needs to help herself. But this has nothing to do with you. She needs to fix herself. She will cheat on you again or the next guy or the next 10 guys until she fixes herself.

It feels like she is rejecting you but that is not what is going on ... she is destroying herself, you are collateral damage. [/quote]

Wrong, she has no respect for me and she's a whore..end of stiry[/quote]

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