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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just ignore posts that demand that the poster acknowledge that her child has a disorder rather than a delay or that a neuropsych is needed if a reasonable determination has been made that one is not or that something is MERLD and much better than ASD unless you want to fall into the quagmire on this thread which is the most unhelpful part of this community, that is, one upping in terms of diagnosis, or making sure that everyone elses' child is as or more disabled than your own. Unfortunately, those posters exist and are very active.

A[b]nd then there is chess mom, whose child is brilliant, a model, a prodigy, very social and friendly and you would never ever know he had ASD and they have had more accommodations than anyone else ever even though they apparently never really even needed them and whose child will beat you and everyone else at life and go to an Ivy. 
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Honestly, just ignore posters that are just furthering their own agenda, making posts about their own situation entirely, or have nothing useful to say. There is no "stopping" them.[/quote]

-Chess mom here.  You really have a "thing" for me don't you?  I haven't posted on this thread until now and I don't know why you are attacking me except you have issues that makes you feel better attacking other parents of SN kids.

My child gets a lot of services and accommodations because he is lucky enough to go to a mainstream public school with teachers and admins that cares about their kids with SNs and he was evaluated and got a diagnosis at the school's suggestion that he may have issues in preK.  DS is brilliant (has a very high IQ), modeled as a baby, a chess prodigy, and has an IEP for ASD/ADHD.  Do you have a problem with that?[/quote]

NP here but even I recognize you because you somehow managed to bring up your brilliant, ASD, model 17 year old DS in a thread about marriage and what it will be like when he eventually marries. It's kinda weird. [/quote]

Nope.  must be another brillant ASD kid who models bc my DS is 9 yrs old.[/quote]
Oh you're right you never said 17. However, this comment is definitely you:

"This is exactly the kind of husband DS will be. At first his Asbergers and ADHD made the former principal at his school want him to leave. But now they like him because he raises their math and reading scores. But he's still a discipline problem because of his stubbornness. They are trying to teach him to write poetry, but he just won't do it. The men in my family have always been poets. My dad wrote lyrics for musicals, and I used to write a lot of poetry. I've offered to help him but he's not in

Something went wrong with my last post. Anyway, he has to take social skills classes and hates it. When we take him to school all the kids call out his name and say hi, but he ignores them. I guess he's popular because he's got exotic Eurasian good looks. He's a national chess champion, and is unbeatable in UNO and Connect Four. But like many with Asbergers, he's focused on particular thing. In his case, it's elevators. Whenever we take him to chess tournaments, he wants to go to all the local hotels and ride the elevators. We even took him to Disney World but all he wanted to do was go to the local hotels and ride elevators.

I can't imagine what kind of husband he will be. He had a job as a magazine model before we moved here from NYC and I think he'll be good looking enough to attract women at the outset, but whoever ends up with him will have to be very easy going and patient."

So you definitely do go talking about this all the time all over the place, enough to where people recognize you and kind of wish you'd stop. We get it, he's stunning intelligent and handsome and better than all other SN kids. He's 9, why are you even talking about what he'll be like as a husband one day?[/quote]

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