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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ironically, it doesn't matter whose fault anything is. It doesn't matter who is more or less boring. OP's wife seems okay with their parallel existence, and it's not uncommon. See the thread about women who want to be married part-time. OP is not into it.

OP, because you experience difficulty, it is up to you to do the work. By work I don't mean pitiful attempts to make your spouse happy as some here suggest. I mean initiating the conversation about your discomfort in the relationship and finding out where your wife stands on this. Things should get clearer from then on. Your refusal to do the difficult part will only drag this misery out ad inifinitum. You either take charge or your life or you don't, it's largely up to you.[/quote]

I was in this situation.  I thought we were having a natural lull but it didn't really matter because we had a strong marriage.  My spouse was to scared to bring it up with me directly, decided that I wasn't in love anymore, and had a long emotional affair that became physical, and we are now divorced.  My behavior wasn't great, but I think my spouse owed me honesty, and the chance to change before deciding that our marriage was over.  Be brave, OP and just tell her what you need from her and also start giving her more of your best self.[/quote]

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