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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You messed up your relationship with your sister, it's like you couldn't help yourself. Hopefully your therapist will give you some much needed insight. Good luck.

I did NOT force her to do anything or control her in anyway. I expressed an opinion [b]expecting her[/b] to value my thoughts and insight. As her only family member in the country I thought it only natural that she get a sense of how I feel when making a huge life altering decision. I did not lock her up or run over her cat or something horrible. [/quote]

The bolded items are part of your problem.  You are expecting her to value your thoughts, insight, feelings and opinions about HER life.  She doesn't and that is acceptable to everyone but you.  I hope you show your threads to your therapist so she might help you better understand how you have so continuously tried to manipulate and control her.  I understand that you don't see that but that doesn't mean you don't - which is why you need to work on it in therapy so you understand how you have damaged your relationship with your sister so much that she wants nothing to do with you. [/quote]

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