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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand why this is frustrating, but if you are going to solve the problem you need to talk to your husband.  You can simply say that you want to talk about the family schedule and his expectations so that the two of you can problem solve and work it out together.  It's honestly great that your husband wants to spend time with the kids, and it's hard when you are the one who leaves early and gets home late.  Spending that time with your children who are so happy to see you is a great way to end a stressful day.  It sounds to me like you and DH are living two different realities - and you are, and it happens, and that's okay - but you need to talk to each other to understand the other person's POV and come up with solutions that meets everyone's needs, emotional or otherwise.  Just try to step back, take a deep breath, and see it from your husband's side.  I'd be willing to be he is not actively trying to upset you or disregard your feelings.  It's just that both of you are only seeing your own side.  [/quote]

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