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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I come home from work everyday at 5:30, get dinner ready, feed my kids (ages 3 and 5), bathe them, read to them, and put them to bed by around 7:30 and he saunters in every night between 7:30-8:30 and then goes upstairs and wakes them up, gets them out of bed, has play time. I am not talking about going into their rooms and quietly talking and tucking them in (which would be ok). It gets loud, they get out of bed, run around, screaming. It makes me SO ANGRY and RESENTFUL.

He claims it is so he can "spend time" with them but I find it infuriating and disrespectful to me. How to handle this? Any advice?[/quote]

Compromise. Push bedtime back so that he can see his kids. Ask him to do quiet things so the kids don't get all riled up.

My DH would do that when he was present. It would be bedtime and he would get the kids HYPER. So I just stopped assisting at that point. I would find something I needed at the store and completely leave the house.  It didn't take long before he turned it WAY down.[/quote]

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