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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I totally hear you. Was recently a bridesmaid in a close family member's incredibly lavish 4th wedding. I spent more on my clothing, makeup, hair, etc. for that wedding than I did for my own wedding. I also totally get being annoyed with showy family members: it stung for awhile when my vivacious SIL appeared in more of my wedding photos than me. She thought it was pretty awesome. But you know, that's who you end up with in your family sometimes. So. In the grand scheme of things, she's your SIL and if they are the type to hold grudges and that will affect your interaction with part of your family... I don't know if that's the hill I'd pick to die on. Say no to as much as you can (if she's doing trips, showers, etc) and let her know up front that you are happy for her and want to be there on her big day and find out what she has in mind if you don't already know. And then see what you can do to psych yourself up to have fun at the wedding.[/quote]
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