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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here with an update. Today my husband had a sit-down with my parents so he could air his feelings. He feels that they wronged him by... failing to hug him more, or something. He says they've not communicated with him about this issue enough. When he wasn't yelling at them he was speaking in the most condescending tone I've ever heard. I haven't said a word to him since we left their house and I'm done. I'm so terribly sad that I'm going to be alone again - I waited until my late 30s to marry - but I can't imagine ever feeling warmth for him again after watching him treat my loving parents that way. I already feel lonely. [/quote]

OP, let me be honest with you: why, why, why would you bring your DH to your parents' house when you know he is hurting so much and has lashed out with them?

I don't think either of you is thinking of acting rationally right now.  This is not the time to divorce.  You're seriously think I g of divorcing your devoted DH over his tone?!? Come ON.  You guys need a LOT of time and space to heal and rebuild your friendship.  You need a long, long break from your parents.  You need to be your own family unit without them for a while.    It really sounds like they are way too involved in your lives.  [/quote]

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