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[quote=Anonymous]OP, why are you looking for more chaos?

It seems like your life descended into chaos and now after the affair, the blow up of the affair and then the divorce, maybe things have calmed down for you.

Why are you looking for trouble again? He is not 100% available to you-likely never will be. Why would you go down that rabbit hole again?

Find someone who is available, have a normal relationship.

Or maybe you "need" the chaos. I have a friend who, each time her life looks like smooth sailing, will go find an unsuitable man/risky investment/all consuming, ridiculous hobby (she was going to be a professional kickboxer starting at 40-overweight/never worked out before-spent all of her time and money at a gym because she had a crush on the trainer). This is a single mom with 3 school aged children and a small business to run. She can't exist without chaos but her kids are suffering greatly (ex will likely get full custody) and now she is close to bankruptcy because of the latest man-child.

Take some time to think about what you are doing with your life and why-maybe therapy is a good idea. [/quote]

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