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Father of 2 native DCs here, one of whom is 7.

I think it's great that you're taking the time to consider whether the costume is appropriate.  Kind/thoughtful of you.

As the prior posts illustrate, there's no consensus on this issue.  Some certainly do find native "costumes" offensive (members of my kids' tribe find the very term "costume" offensive when used to describe tribal regalia).  Others would view it as inoffensive, provided that it didn't include "cartoonish" elements or items of religious significance.

For my wife and kids, it certainly is strange to see kids dressed as natives--even when done with the best intentions, it feels like a parody or trivialization of things (traditional dress, etc.) that they take quite seriously.  Not offensive exactly, but uncomfortable for them.

I'd suggest using this as a teaching moment.  Discuss the issue and concerns with your DD and let her make the choice.  She'll have learned something and, if she does choose to dress as Sacajawea, she'll hopefully present/explain her costume in a respectful way.

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