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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-I am made to be a villain in my family because my divorced dad has been accused of touching women (multiple) inappropriately and as a result I will not allow either of my kids to be around him alone. Many people in my family and my husband's family tell me think that I am overreacting . I've realized that I couldn't live with myself if something happened with my kids and my dad and it's a much lesser consequence than being villianized by certain members of the family for overreacting. If you great up with mental abuse which I am guessing you did, it's easy to think you are in the wrong qhen you've done nothing wrong. [/quote] Good for you. You are a parent of rare competence and courage. In another life, I was a nurse and, in most cases of child sexual abuse, there were massive clues that a lot of people in the family turned a blind eye to because ostracizing the molester is "awkward." The kind of person who gropes adults may very well molest children left vulnerable to him because the tendency to force unwanted sexual attention on those who appear vulnerable is the common theme there.[/quote] Thank you! It's good that DCURBANMOM understands even if my family doesn't.[/quote]
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