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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Ask yourself why you chose a partner who never really put you first.

What was attractive about marrying someone so immature?  Do you want your children to grow up thinking this is a loving partnership?   Would your want your children to be treated this way by their spouse?

You have chosen someone who abandons you every night.   This is a no win situation, as you already lost long ago.
Perhaps you value safety over loving connection.    That's fine, but be honest with yourself that this is all that your marriage is about.

Not OP but I did post on here earlier. Damn lady where the hell were you when I needed to be told this?

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I will take this as a compliment, PP.  I am a marriage counselor.  Sometimes I come on here and give advice.
The thing about marriage is what might appear like hell to you or I is manageable to those living in the marriage.  People marry the familiar, and this can be really hard to watch.  I said these things because OP chose this man, and knew that is who he was.   I threw out some things to explore that I thought might help the OP.   It's painful and frightening to come to a place one realizes that you are a good, sweet person who doesn't deserve to feel so unloved.  [/quote]

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