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[quote=Anonymous][quote]MIL says (to DH) that she isn't there to watch and she just wants to be part of welcoming her grandchild to the world, [b]same as my mom[/b].[/quote] Uh huh. PP had it right that your mother is NOT there to welcome her grandchild (who will have absolutely no memory of the event and couldn't care less). Your mother is there to support YOU. That your MIL is making this about her and her grandchild should be making you rethink your relationship. Boundaries must be established and must be respected! That your DH is waffling on this is just appalling! I'm so pissed on your behalf (and I last gave birth 11 years ago). Just know that the delivery room staff will bar anyone you don't want in there. You don't have to be angry, you don't have to be yelling, you don't have to throw a fit. You just tell them you only want your DH and your mother in there. Show this thread to your DH.[/quote]
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