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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's my question for everyone who suggests therapy.

Are there any actual examples of women being able to therapy their way out of resenting their husband and being unattracted such that they were once again attracted and wanted sex with him?

Can therapy really cure resentment and repulsion?

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Sure it can.  It's about [b]communicating[/b] and getting grievances out in the [b]open[/b], [b]feeling heard[/b] and [b]understood[/b], and changing behaviors to [b]avoid falling back[/b] into the same place.  Therapy can play a critical role in [b]facilitating[/b] all of that.  By no means is it an easy process, but with two willing and [b]committed[/b] partners it can be done.[/quote]

Yep, you wrote down all therapyspeak words from MSW classes and best-seller books.

But honestly, I bet you cannot name one. single.  couple who respectfully talked their way back from [u]decade-long resentment and physical repulsion and disgust[/u].    I know I can't.  [/quote]

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