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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I'm sorry people are being so mean and unhelpful to you.  Unlike most people in dcum, I don't think it's the end of the world if you have a sexless marriage.  I don't think you should feel bad about telling him, sorry, [b]that ship has sailed and you chose not to be on it...
[/b]But, if that's not what you want, I think this is what you need to do.  First, forgive him.  At least a little.  I think it's the resentment that breeds the repulsion, and maybe also the many years of tending to him while he was sick.  Second, get pretty drunk and watch hot guys on TV.  Third, just do it (well, maybe make him give you a backrub first).  Close your eyes and think of the hot guys from TV.  I think if you have okay sex a few times, you'll start to feel more attraction to him.  [/quote]

LOL the quoted part.

Don't have anything useful to tell you that you don't already know.  Guess I'm just telling my story here.   btw, I find you very attractive because I get a sense you are very realistic in life, intelligent and a good person.

Naah, after typing it out, my story doesn't mean shit here.  Delete it is.  Hugs to you though for having to had conditioned yourself because of all the resentment.  I don't blame you.  It was survival.  You don't have a bad life really.  Might blow up after the kid moves out, who knows.  Perhaps you should move with the Hubby to another locale where he can find employment.  A lawyer being the kind of person you are, can find a job anywhere.  You can always find a good school, besides good parenting is better than any school.  Start a new life with hubby.  Doesn't sound like you'd be leaving much behind.  It might start a new relationship with hubby, having to depend upon each other more for stimuli.  Or don't, your choice.  You don't really seem to give a shit about it anyway.  good luck.[/quote]

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