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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stress did not cause this. Your poor character did.

You introduced him to your kids? You're gross.

Please tell your DH and let him decide what he wants do. You have no right to treat him this way. He has the expectation of a faithful wife. Tell him he does not have one.[/quote]

In the history of the internet, how many times have you seen an OP respond to something like this by saying, "You are absolutely right! I have poor character! Thank you for helping me see that I am terrible and gross!"? If not, then what is the purpose of posting this? Does it make you feel good?[/quote]

I don't know what caused this, stress, poor character, both, none, something else. This is why I am such a mess right now.

Kids are small. They know AP as mommy's colleague who went for a walk with us ones. We behaved very properly and talked about work issues. This was not gross. DH knows about this walk and knows about AP as my colleague but haven't met him. I met his child when he helped me with something. We again behaved properly, and it was not gross. [/quote]

Really? Because if your AP's child found out that the woman they helped install a new printer (or whatever) was having an affair with their dad, I'm pretty sure 'gross' is the mildest word they would use. Huge breach of trust by your AP. Ditto you and your little walk with your LO.

Your behavior is not okay. Your actions are both a lie and a betrayal to people who love you and who rely on you. Clearly you need to be told this in a very blunt manner, over and over again, because you still don't seem to get it.

Stop. Just stop. If you think that's hard, imagine standing in the nuclear blast zone you will call your life if you keep walking down this road.

And hell, if that's what you want, fine. Drop the bomb. It's your life. But don't sit in marriage counseling and lie to your husband by omitting your affair from the conversation.[/quote]

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