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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I found out that my husband's AP had met my our kids in any circumstance (aside from being already in our circle like mom of one of the kids' friends, etc.), I world be completely horrified.  That is a huge breach - I'm not sure how to explain it, but it doesn't matter that you weren't making out in front of each other.  It would sicken me - that the AP spent time with my kids.  That you can't see this is problematic.

Also, whether you realize it or not, a workplace affair will impact your work.  If nothing else, your coworkers will figure it out even though you think you are discreet, and that will have a negative impact.[/quote]

+1 I saw this go down at my company earlier this year. Colleagues complained that a coworker was getting preferential treatment and he (supervisor) was fired. Imagine him explaining that to his family. Also, his team loved him and hated her, and she's still there because our firm is afraid of a lawsuit. Nightmare.

OP from what I can tell you have horrific judgment. I wouldn't be so sure that this isn't impacting your work, considering you're so off base about other things.[/quote]

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