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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, have you explored with your therapist why you are pursuing older men?   Why did you pick a thirty-something guy when you were in your 20's?  And why are you pursuing this 20+ years older guy this time?

You do honestly sound very naive.  And at the same time, I'd peg you as a strong risk to cheat on this new guy sometime down the road as well.   You don't seem very self-aware, or to have alot of knowledge about relationships.[/quote]

I don't know why I choose older men. I simply don't like younger men physically or intellectually. It's always been this way. Both DH and AP don't look their ages (they look 10 years younger at least).

Why do women pick older partners?[/quote]

Daddy issues.  What was your father like?[/quote]

My father was always tired after work, he would come home after 7, eat, and lie down to rest or watch tv. He liked fishing and his car and would spend all of his time fixing the car or going on fishing trips with or without my mom, sometimes with me and my sibling. My parents were not affectionate with each other or us when we were growing up. I treasured infrequent conversations I had with my dad. My mom and dad live vey far now, I have to get on a plane and fly for hours to see them.[/quote]

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