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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hahaha  :D

As a gay man very familiar with the commonality of open relationships, committed partners who engage in threesomes/orgies, frequency of quiet cheating or not so quiet cheating on the sly, "bisexual" men fooling around on grindr when travelling for business, all within the gay "community," if I were a woman looking for a monogamous relationship and a man declared he was bisexual on a date, I'd say thanks very much, it was nice meeting you, leave and never look back. Maybe he's a nice man, maybe he's sincere about commitment, but hmm... no thanks. Out of the huge pool of perfectly straight men, why risk a bisexual man?

For men (most men at least) sex itself is not as sacrosanct an act as it is for women (this is backed up by studies after studies that show men tend to think of sex as just sex). Which is why sex is so easily purely carnal for many gays and dare I even say it, bisexual men, and thus the frequency of bisexual men wanting to have it all and posting on grindr without the knowledge of their female partners.

Advice for you, dear boy, if you are genuinely bisexual and reach the point where you want to enter into a committed relationship with a woman (and I'll allow that you can be genuinely monogamous, certainly some are, bisexual or not), keep your mouth shut. Trust me, the woman doesn't want to know. She really does not want to know. Except maybe if she's a college girl who gets a kick out of being progressive and edgy, but when she's 25+ and looking for the mommy / family / committed relationship track, she [i]really [/i]does not want to know.

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People who will cheat, will cheat. Take a look at the relationship forum to see how many straight men are cheating assholes. Perhaps the real lesson here is that men shouldn't be trusted, period.

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YOu are THE MOST annoying type of gay: The Know It All.[/quote]

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