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[quote=Anonymous][b]My H and I had lots of sex until he became ill, 9 months a go. We tried to force it for about 4 months which took an emotional toll on him.

I take care of business by myself 3 times a week.

I don't blame him for his body failing him.

Men want to believe it is different for them, it's not, well adjusted women (and men) just handle hard times better that others. We are stronger and more equipped emotionally.

You issue is not rare and it is not just men, it isn't even a big problem compared to most people with real problems. You just are not good at being a partner.

This thread is about consequences of a long term relationship, and I am realistic.[/b]

Most men married to women who couldn't physically have sex would be understanding, as you are.  Big difference between a partner that physically can't have sex and one who just won't because they don't want to.

If you loved to go out on date nights, and you can't any longer with your husband because he is hospitalized, you aren't going to be resentful towards him as the husband that is perfectly capable but just doesn't want to.

Hugs to you, either way its a sad situation.[/quote]

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