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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A healthy male sex drive doesn't fade much.  Its not a want.  If you have never felt a strong drive, there is no analogy.  But turn on the Discovery channel, watch a couple of male rams but heads for the right to mate.  Or wolves fight to the death, or lions kill cubs to get the female in heat.

Yes, yes of course humans have rational brains that can control a man fro, raping, killing.  But the drive is still there, eating away until it's released.  Our species depends on the it[/quote]

Not true.

By 40 men's testosterone has decreased by 10%. Also they don't get as big and hard, their recovery time is longer.

http://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/sex-drive#Overview1

Men are socialized to not control their desires it's not biology.[/quote]

10% isn't much.

So I'll go from thinking about sex ten times an hour to nine. Big fucking deal. [/quote]

Is that how science works, 10% less testosterone is directly correlated with desire. No. Also 40 % of men 40+ deal with some ED. 
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Reread what you just wrote. Now consider the fact ED has 0% (zero) correlation with desire. 
ED is a physical performance issue. The guys with ED are equally desirous as the guys without ED. That is why viagra is so successful with men: the baseline mental desire never left, and the drug treats the blood flow symptom.

Consider also that while millions of older men are ecstatic over viagra, millions of older women [u]hate the drug[/u] because she preferred not having sex anymore. Google that if you don't believe me.[/quote]

Goggle why the 1st woman Viagra study failed. The scientist was trying to explain why the study failed and eventually said, we did not control for assholes. We did not control for men that treat their wives as if the must have sex to save their marriage instead  it only work for marriages where the man just lovingly wants his wife to enjoy sex but loves her and is committed even if they can't.

When they controlled the study for men that are loving husbands the drug was successful.

Long story short, some low libidos are induced by the way men treat their husbands. I don't mean romance. [/quote]

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