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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hugs, OP. I've been in your shoes and it's absolutely awful. Long term sexual rejection is one of the most horrible things you can do to someone.

With my ex, I suspect it was a combination of low testosterone, depression, a ton of porn, and an overall unhealthy lifestyle. I tried very hard to get him to see a dr and go to therapy but he refused, until I finally had enough and checked out. Then he wanted to work on it, but it was too late for me by then.

Unfortunately I think with this issue you just have to put your foot down and demand he see a doctor and/or go to therapy to sort this out. My ex used to always promise he would try and things would get better, but they never did.

Is there an underlying medical issue that could be causing it? Is your husband active and in decent shape? Any chance he's using a lot of porn? I've had several friends whose significant others lost interest in sex with them because of porn. [/quote]

Thank you and sorry to hear I didn't work out with your ex :( I really love my DH and I know he loves me too, he is emotionally engaged, considerate and cuddly. He seems exhausted/ overwhelmed by daily grind with 2 babies and maybe I didn't notice that he is a bit depressed, If he was a woman I wouldn't be surprised that he doesn't want sex, it would be very "average" if not normal. But for a man I know most guys however tired they still want some action in the bedroom..

We got his T tested, I understood it was normal. He is overall physically active, tall lanky style but he goes running, exercise regularly. We both think he is not at the top of his shape though (he used to be well defined athletic, now muscle mass has melted a lot and he is tired often). He looks a bit like his energy is not circulating well, always cold fo ex...[/quote]

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