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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, heading to emerg to be with him, making eye appointments, being so involved... Are you just upset that you're in the friend zone? Why aren't you two together? [/quote]

+1.  The only person in this scenerio who seems to be getting jerked around here is OP.  [/quote]

I agree. What are you getting out of this "friendship"? [/quote]

[b]He is a  great guy. Good for bouncing things off of. When I am dating someone he is great for keeping me on an even keel and not rejecting/accepting things I shouldn't. [/b]We get a long famously and work together. He has done plenty for me in the past that is why I the things I do for him. [/quote]

But you don't want to offer him the same thing by kindly offering him input as a friend about his current situation? [/quote]

I do want to but he wants this to work out so bad I feel like a bad guy if I tell him that she isn't the one yet. I think he can find what he wants if he just puts a little more effort into looking. He dated a whole 6 women off some on line site and she was the best of the bunch. I didn't know much about her till he was face down in it and I just felt like an ogre coming in late and saying "not this one". I am going to buck up and tell him or some how suggest to him that maybe she is jerking him around a bit and hope he will listen. [/quote]

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