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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry that this happened to you. I'm sorry that you have been so utterly betrayed by the man that you loved, the father of your child, the person who you shared the last 15+ years with. It must feel terrible that he used your son like that. You are a strong and brave woman who tried to save your family despite the fact that he was actively undermining you at every turn. I'm sorry that he has refused to hold himself accountable and has turned it around instead as a way to continue to denigrate you. I can't imagine how frustrated and sad you must feel.

You are still a strong and brave woman. Don't let him take another day of your memories from you. Don't let him dictate your relationship with your son or with the truth for another day. Don't give him the satisfaction of hoodwinking either of you for another minute, because he is telling you and skywriting that he is not capable, not willing to change.

Tell your son what really happened and who his father really is so you can begin to rebuild a mother-child relationship founded on trust and faith. Show your son who you really are - a strong confident woman who gave her husband a chance to redeem himself but who no longer has any patience for a man who has no respect for their family.

You have a job, you have a son who needs to see a parent with a backbone, and you have some self-respect that needs to be rescued. Go to a hotel, get a room for the night and mourn the loss of everything you know is gone. Then come back tomorrow, tell your husband they have coffee and newspapers at the hotel, hand him the key to the room and tell him where he can shove it. Trust and believe, it will be very emotional when you see him finally walk out that door, and the emotion that you will be flooded with is relief.

I'm sorry he did this to you. [/quote]

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