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[quote=Anonymous]I hope you've spoken to a lawyer. Your husband is merely sticking it out until your kid turns 18 for financial reasons.

Here's what I would do:

1. Speak with a lawyer this week. Do not tell your husband or son (neither can be trusted).

2. Get your ducks in a row.

3. If you aren't already working FT with a salary that can support you, then get your resume in order.

Wow. Just wow. I'm so sorry. If it were me, I would be equally furious with my husband and teenager. [/quote]

This is OP.  Yes it was crappy.  I work full time.  Splitting everything would be fine, divorce is not the worst thing that could happen.  It's not what I want.  But I recognize the possibility.  I hate throwing away our history as a family.  I'll never have that again , and I value that.[/quote]

You will always have that history. You need individual non-pastoral therapy. Him dragging your son into this is unforgivable. Your son is going to do this same crap 30 years from now - you have given him the ok by staying.

[b]Your DH is absolutely going to divorce you when it costs him less. Wow.[/b][/quote]

This, OP.  Don't let him do this to you.  Gather up the remnants of your self-respect, leave, and rebuild.  You can do it.[/quote]

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