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[quote=Anonymous]OP, given everything you've posted, I think the only way you can stay married to your husband is if you adjust your expectations dramatically. Do not expect him to be loving to you. Do not expect him to be remorseful about the affair, or to take your feelings about it into consideration. Do not expect him not to cheat again. Based on the behavior you've described, any other expectations are unrealistic and will only cause further unhappiness. If you want to accept those adjusted expectations and stay married to him, that is your prerogative and I'm not going to say boo about that, but this is where you are, and not amount of wishful thinking will make it otherwise. After 18 months of counseling, if it hasn't changed yet, it's not going to.[/quote]
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