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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your sister called you regularly and was friendly and kind.  She visited your parents regularly and called them and even brought them gifts.

So, gifts were late.  Your parents are grown ups.  How about appreciating gifts?  Who are you to audit the frequency of her contact with your parents, the content of her gifts, and the date of their delivery?  You have SUCH a huge chip on your shoulder.

Question here.  If you are SO concerned about your parents' heartbreak and loneliness, why did you move so far away?  If you are so heartbroken that they are lonely, then YOU move back and visit them with your children daily or whatever you think your sister should be doing.

Your sister's annoyance with you is warranted.  And maybe you think your annoyance with her is warranted and you're proud of yourself for criticizing her via email.  That's between you two.  But WTF?!  You expect your mother to stop speaking to her because YOU are annoyed with her?  You expect your mother to punish your sister and push her away because your sister doesn't feel like talking to you?  What planet are you from that you think your mom should push away your sister to punish her for not having enough contact with YOU?!

I honestly cannot imagine why your sister would want to talk to you at all after this.[/quote]

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